Sunday, September 20, 2015

Building Relationships...



Building relationships is the key to a foundation in coaching. 

A famous soccer coach has stated "They forget what you say to them. They forget what you do with them. But they never forget how you made them feel!" while we aren't coaching a sport, what we do is so similar to that of a sports coach.
Our victory comes when they "score" the right lesson!

Building the foundation will create an environment where teachers can trust you and ultimately take your advice. 

Top ten ways to build relationships with your teachers:

1. Be on time. Time is precious to teachers, start and end on time ALWAYS!
2. Be polite. Remember to say "please" "thank you" and "you're welcome" never demand or come across as a know it all. Embrace and use the principles of etiquette: Consideration, respect and honesty.
3. Be prepared. Plan for everything. It will show they are important.
4. Be aware. Keep a pulse on your school and the climate, take note of nonverbal cues.
5. Be thankful. Harness the power of the sincere compliment. Send handwritten thank-you notes or gifts for teachers trying new ideas or challenging themselves.
6. Be attentive. Pay complete attention in meetings or conversations. Make eye contact, smile, nod, summarize or paraphrase what you hear.
7. Be responsible. Take responsibility for your mistakes. Apologize and offer a solution.
8. Be intentional. Always keep your vision clear and remember to align everything with what is best for students.
9. Be available. Make them feel like they are top on your list of a MILLION things to do...even when they aren't!
10. Be yourself. Build relationship by genuinely taking the time to show you care. 
Looking for notes TRY THESE on our google drive.